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A QUESTION FOR THE UNIVERSE............................



"The most wrenching fear that one experiences is the fear one feels for others..when one loves, one fears for the other." David Brazier


Why is doing the right thing oftentimes the HARDEST thing?
When rescuing becomes EN-NABELING ...you have totally missed the target.  This has been a hard lesson for me to learn and I have suffered greatly because of my fear. Perhaps this time the lesson has been learned.  Who knows?

Just me....
Jo  




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  1. Jim and SandieSeptember 20, 2017 at 3:51 PM

    I've had to learn how to let go of my fears for my son and I'm doing a lousy job of it. But I work on it every day. He's also good at gently telling me to back off. But as a parent, the fear never goes away. We have to learn to control it. Not easy.

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  2. Debra She Who SeeksSeptember 20, 2017 at 4:39 PM

    Many, many people struggle with this but you're right. Tough Love is the answer and better for everyone in the long run. Sorry to hear this is raising its ugly head for you right now. Wishing you strength and peace.

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  3. Starting Over, Accepting Changes - MaybeSeptember 20, 2017 at 7:29 PM

    When the burden becomes too great, we sometimes have to let go. It is never easy and one will never be comfortable with their decision.

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