If I slow down long enough....and REALLY pay attention....I can usually figure out where I have missed the mark. I've visited with a few friends...and listened to their input...which I value greatly...their open sharing always seems to make the load a little lighter. Anyone who has followed me for any length of time knows of the addiction problems that have troubled my family for generations. This disease can stay in families for generations and one can certainly become worn out fighting the battle. My sweet husband and I are no exception. In fact, our tendency is just to want to ignore the problem, get them out of jams, ignore their hurt and ILLNESS and carry on with OUR LIFE. It does not mean we don't care....it just means that we are so uncomfortable with the situation and so very tired of having to deal with it. Well.....we are still in the middle of the mess.....however....with a change in tactics.....I hope we can see some light at the en...