"Let go......or be dragged."
Zen quote

Wednesday, April 22, 2015

LIVING ALONE..................................................




I  have never lived alone....although I have a few lady friends that do.  

This morning my wonderful soul mate had an early meeting.  That meant I was here alone with my pups for a good part of the early morning.


I tried to imagine my life without Brad....it was unsettling to say the least.  
As we grow older together it is inevitable that one of us will end up being alone.  I'm not trying to be morbid here but just addressing reality.


You build a life with someone and suddenly you are the one who remains.

I don't really know what a person can do to prepare for this.....but it will happen in each of our lives if we have a partner.  How do you adapt to doing everything ALONE that you once did with someone else.  It really is almost overwhelming to think about it.

So.....for the time being....I just treasure each day that I have with my partner and I know he does the same with me.

You know.....when you are young you never think about this....but as you age together.....it becomes more of a reality.

Just me thinking out loud today.
As I said.....not trying to be morbid just speaking the truth.

xo